I found out about it this morning upon waking up to look at my phone (set on silent overnight, as per my usual routine); and I will say that my heart dropped down into my belly somewhere and hasn’t yet returned to its proper place.
I groggily read just a few snippets of the slew of text messages sent throughout the night by my Mom; catching things like:
“Your father (by this, she means my step-father) went to get Boo downtown and hasn’t come back…”,
Or:“He’s STILL not home, I’m worried…”,
Or:“It’s been THREE HOURS NOW! I have no car, and I’m going crazy…”
Or finally:“His phone just goes straight to voicemail…”
It was just the day before yesterday that I sat out on the front porch with him to escape my mother’s hollering into her Bluetooth inside (she still doesn’t grasp the notion of the other person being able to hear her fine if she just speaks in a normal tone); that I verbalized some very haunting visions to him in a foretelling plea for his logical side to come out and hear me…in total vain, it turns out.
Boo has been consistently dishonest and destructive to my parents ever since that dreaded moment in which my mother was struck by some gods-awful notion that she had to see Boo through the next few surgeries until the tracheotomy is removed and she can speak naturally again; she has brought with her presence in their home nothing but grief and disarray – dope fiend maneuvers, and all things associated with a fucking street hooker’s lifestyle, in essence. My parents are so naive…sickeningly naive…naive from age, apparently. Because, the clueless and vulnerable old folks that each has evolved to represent these days were NOT the two people who I had around during my teen-aged years, by a long shot.
- Boo’s despicable thievery has, thus far, totaled up to at least: $3,500.00 (yes, you read that correctly) stolen out of my sleeping father’s wallet in the wee morning hours while she was awake and whacked out on drugs; but, there have been other instances as well of stolen cash in much smaller amounts, too.
- She has stolen family heirloom jewelry (oddly enough, her father literally stole pieces of the exact same set almost 20 years ago) from my mother’s room while being left alone at their house during the workday.
- She stole ALL of my mother’s medicines (a very notably sized plethora of pills including but not limited to Oxycontin, various tranquilizers, psyche meds, and the handful of different medicines that my mom NEEDS for rheumatoid arthritis and lupus.
- She stole my father’s entire wallet; as well as a stun gun that was deep inside of one of her bureau drawers.
In a nutshell, she has been horribly ungrateful and disrespectful, she has remained in constant violation of the home that they have, once again, opened up to her in her time of need. Last night should have undoubtedly been “the straw” for both of them…
My father drove downtown last night to pick Boo up at the drop of a dime when she called, claiming she had been punched in the face and her phone had been stolen (I live in the silicon valley, a live and wide awake place where downtown isn’t welcoming at nighttime to the average person);
when he arrived to the place she had directed to meet her at, he was beaten nearly to death by five grown men who appeared from nowhere – only seconds before Boo suddenly appeared, as well. One of the cowards even went into his car and found his ginormous Maglite flashlight, then proceeded to beat him in his face with it until my dad went unconscious in the street. I was not there…I do not know for myself any of the minor details surrounding this heinousness; but I do know that it changes everything – forever…for ME at least.
I hope he recovers quickly and in full, I am so very, very sorry. Hugs. My heart hurts for you and yours.
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Thank you sister. You are always here to offer encouragement at the most trying of times for me and its not lost on me. ♡
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What the hell? How could she?
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I’d be at a loss over all of it, too; if I weren’t so lobotomized right now…
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Not to mention that I’m seeing only red right now, also. ..
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Ultimate betrayal
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Aye. Ultimate.
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What the actual fuck….?!?!?!
I don’t know wtf to say.
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What is there to say to this???
…don’t feel bad that you can’t find any words…I can’t either. ..
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I just think it is my instinct to want to offer some sort of comforting words…
I just wish that things weren’t effed up like this for you. And I’m sure that’s still an understatement.
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I always appreciate you, Kind Sir…no gesture of support or comfort can be understated in my book. Hugs xx
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Well, you and your family will be in my thoughts.
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A rare gem, you are…
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Oh my god. I am glad he survived, but she is beyond the help of anyone now. Is she being charged?
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I’m not really sure what’s happening with the police yet…my dad spent the night in hospital last night and came home late today…I know that the cops were the ones to get him out of the street and get him help; birthdays about it.
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She has no bridges left to burn, it seems. I am so sorry this is happening to you and your parents / step dad. Just painful 😦
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Aye. Very painful. Hugs.
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All my love to you. hugs ❤
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I’m stunned into silence at Boo’s behaviour. I hope your step dad recovers OK.
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I hesitated to like this post; obviously I am saddened by its contents, but your ability to write about it and the way you write is why I follow you. I hope he recovers quickly…..if I prayed, I’d do it for you. Addiction is a bitch.
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I just had to erase what I wrote.
…. I love you. I am sorry your world keeps getting flipped. More than that I cant say with out more venom than anyone – you or your followers – can handle. Trust me.
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I love you back…
I guess that’s just my world and I need to accept the constant flipping….
Hugs and kisses to you.
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Oh. No. My brain doesn’t like that answer. But for the sake of … Public forum I will nod and smile and say OK. I like the hugs and kisses and love part though. You know. Just saying.
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Always plenty more where that came from (FOR YOU, AT LEAST).
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